WHEN YOU LOSE A CHILD, YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. COME TO OUR REMEDI, WE WILL HELP EASE YOUR PAIN.
Our mission is to make sure every mom who suffers a pregnancy or infant loss is provided with support and community resources to help with their grief. We want to share our personal story of grief and how we have overcome the worse event one can ever endure. We don’t want anyone to feel alone, it’s a feeling no one will ever understand unless you have been through it.
OUR STORY
“I carried you every second of your life and I will love you every second of mine.”
When we were pregnant, my partner and I were excited to be parents and prepared as much as anyone can be, to bring a new life into the world. No one expects the unexpected to happen, but we prayed for protection and strength throughout our entire pregnancy. Fast forward to January 18 2022, we were 36 weeks along when our life changed, our beautiful daughter Remedi was born into the world. We were so overjoyed with happiness to start our new life, as a family of three. Then the unexpected happened, and our lives were forever changed. Our story is to be continued.
NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO?
PLEASE DON’T HESITATE TO ASK FOR HELP. WHETHER ITS ONE ON ONE THERAPY, A SUPPORT GROUP SESSION OR EVEN ASKING A FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER TO LISTEN TO YOU. IT WILL BE HARD TO TALK ABOUT HOW YOUR FEELING BUT TALKING ABOUT IT IS THE BEST WAY TO RELEASE THE PAIN. TALKING ABOUT YOUR GRIEF IS SUCH AN IMPORTANT PART OF THE HEALING PROCESS. I DON’T KNOW IF I COULD HAVE SURVIVED THIS TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCE WITHOUT A COMBINATION OF THERAPY OPTIONS, FAMILY SUPPORT AND SHARING MY STORY.
BELOW YOU WILL FIND A LINK FOR FREE THERAPY RESOURCES AND COMMUNITY ASSISTANCE. I HIGHLY SUGGEST TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THE RESOURCES THAT ARE AVAILABLE TO YOU IN YOUR COMMUNITY AND STATE.
LETTERS TO REMEDI
JANUARY 23, 2022
Dear Remedi,
I don’t even know where to begin, what to say, how to feel. My heart is broken. Nothing can be worse than losing a child. Nothing can prepare for this type of news. Nothing will ever feel normal but I pray time will heal our broken hearts. My precious, beautiful angel is flying above us protecting us. I can’t wrap my head around what happened. I have so many question to ask, so many things don’t make any sense.
WHY… WHY DID GOD PICK US? WHY OH WHY??
I can only believe that heaven needed Remedi Marie Clyburn more than we did. She was the most beautiful girl I had ever seen, she had so many of our features from the adorable nose, cheeks, lips and hands and so much hair. She weighed 4 lbs 2oz 17 3/4 inches long. She was the best thing that came to our lives and then she left us peacefully. By far the hardest thing I have and will ever go through. I’m praying for strength to keep Dillon and me strong, praying for comfort, praying for everyone else who loved her as much as we do. Life is going to be difficult for awhile but with love, support, strength and time we will get better together.
I love you Remedi Marie, my sweet, beautiful angel baby. You will never be forgotten, You are always in our hearts, in our dreams and I can promise you that we will continue to fight for you. Just know, your momma and daddy loves you more than you’ll ever know.
Love Momma
January 26, 2022
Dear Remedi,
It’s been 1 week since you left us and the pain is unbearable. We think about you every second. No matter where we go or what we do, we think what could we be doing if we were with you. I like to imagine bringing you everywhere and showing you off. 2 weeks before you arrived we had our maternity photos taken, We will never forget that day of excitement. We wanted to share, so you can see how loved you were and how excited we were to be your parents.
The day you went to heaven left footprints on our hearts and souls that will remain in our lives forever. We love you so much Remedi
Love Momma
May 8, 2022
Heaven and earth may separate us today but nothing will ever change the fact that you, Remedi made me a mom and I thank you for that. I miss you so much baby girl. My heart is aching for you. I know your with me today. I pray each day to see you, feel you, hold you, and I know someday I will. Until then embrace me every day. I may shed tears and that’s okay- it only shows how much love I have for you each and every day.
I remember after you left this physical world your daddy looked into the sky and saw your peace sign letting us know you got to heaven okay but after taking this picture I saw your face in the clouds and that too gave us comfort. I found that picture in my phone and knew you were thinking of me today. We know you love us so much and we love you too Remedi.
Love Mommy and Daddy
